
Actionable tips:
- In your next client meeting, focus on listening more than speaking. Take note of their needs and concerns without jumping to conclusions.
- Instead of assuming you know what will work, ask questions to uncover deeper insights. This will not only show your interest but also help you tailor your pitch effectively.
“Let go of your preconceived notions, because it’s impossible to learn anything if you think you already know it all.” - Epictetus
In sales, clinging to what we think we know can limit our growth. And pride can keep us closed off from recognising opportunities to learn.
Like The Avengers, who each bring unique strengths and are open to learning from one another, we too must stay humble.
Embrace feedback from peers and clients, and be open to new ideas.
Every prospect conversation is a learning opportunity; don’t let pride stand in the way of growth.
Stay humble, adapt, and improve.
Remember you will die.
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Jack Frimston
Co-Founder at We Have a Meeting
Zac Thompson
Co-Founder at We Have a Meeting
So it's a good job that I'm reading this one today, because you might struggle. I know you struggle with this one. It's embrace humility. Embrace humility and you struggle to be humble, as we know. We've had a few comments in. Can Zach try to be a bit more humble on the next episode? So let's see. It's hard to be humble. It's hard to be humble because you might crumble. It's the 11th of April. Let's do it.
Throw out your conceited opinions for it is impossible for a person to begin to learn what he thinks he already knows. Epictetus. And is he? Yep. Easy for me to say. This makes me think of the idiot. And I don't mean you. Can you not gesture to me like Sorry, sorry. I'm a handsy. The idiot. The character that you can play. And I think it's a character that you can play on sales calls and in sales environment.
I also think it's a character that you should play in life. There's phrases and quotes that you may have heard of like, but you don't want to ever be the smartest person in the room. If you're the smartest person in the room, you're in the wrong room. So I'm definitely in the wrong room. So what was you saying about being humble? Sorry, no, I don't need to work on that. So embracing humility, I think it's a case of how do you have the self-awareness to acknowledge that
finishing each of the sentences. I don't know everything. I need to be better. I need to be challenged. And I think that sometimes, you know, where, where's a good example of this. So you cold call somebody and they say, I would never say that. That would never work. That pattern interrupt doesn't work. Something to say? No, I'm just, I like the way you're coming across. So I call you your CEO and you go, that would never work. Right? Yeah. You've got a few options. You've got a few paths. I could fight fire with fire. I could go.
Sorry mate, sorry CEO of Tesco Bank. I've actually used this seven times this morning. I've already booked an appointment. It does work. You're an idiot. Okay. So I try and make you feel like the idiot. Please don't. Not going to work. No, not the CEO of Tesco Bank. What I'm going to do is I'm going to be the idiot. All right. Should show them how that would work? So hit me and say that you don't like my pattern interrupt. I don't think I'd start a call like that. You need to tell me who you are, where you're from. I don't think that's going to work. I'll be honest.
It's only my third cold call of the day. I guess if you were to start, what would you be doing? I'd go, hi, I'm Tezco. I'm the CEO of Tesco Bank. And I think you need to take me bloody seriously and start thinking about putting your money straight into me. OK. And then where would you go next? So obviously I'm calling about X, Y and Z problem. What would you do then? I wouldn't say that. I'd just talk about like all the features and advantages and benefits of Tesco Bank in a failing economy. OK. And then what would you do?
blame Nigel Farage or the other side, depends on how I was feeling that day. We're quite fickle. Fair. Can I ask a bit of stupid question then? Please. I was calling to talk to you about Tesco Bank and solving X and Y. It feels like none of that actually resonated or stood out to you. Well, no, it's not that. Ha! Idiot schmuckered bank. Well, that's how you did it. That's how I did it. And what do you call that, telling it the schmuckered? The schmucker. Very Try it. Available on WXS now.
That's how I'm thinking about being the edit in those situations. Rather than always trying to be the expert and saying, it does work and getting fighty, you can't fight fire with fire. You've got to fight fire with idiots. Beautiful. Yeah, that was amazing. Anything you'd add on that? No, I think it's a great way of approaching everything. I'm constantly saying, I think we're too married to our ideas and too married to our ego.
It's an amazing thing that you spot with salespeople of recency bias. So you can have a hundred good calls in a day, but the hundred and first is someone who goes absolutely mad at you. They really go crazy. how dare you? Where did you get my number from? If you had a hundred calls that were pretty good, maybe 20 of them where someone was absolutely blown away. Like, a great opener. Like, you're really good. I wish we had salespeople like you. But your brain is wired in such a way that it remembers the one that went bad. Yeah.
And rather than going in all deflated by it, you could be the idiot. Someone could start going mad at you and you could say, it sounds like you're having a really tough day. I'm probably being stupid. I'm guessing there's probably a better way to get hold of you. Yeah, you should be speaking to my PA. Okay, look, before I go and do that, would it be worth just summing up in 20 seconds why I called you? If it's totally irrelevant, I won't bother you again. Does that sound fair?
You can defuse the situation, but also play the idiot and say, what should I have done? If you were a Marjory's, how would you have got hold of you? Yeah, really good, really, really good. And I've been learning all about all the different biases and I've got to say that that one that you speaking about, that's my favorite. Which one? Recency. Okay. Yeah, recent bias. Yeah, loads and loads of good stuff. I think it's just a case of remembering that you're, what do you want the outcome to be? Defuse the situation. You gain nothing by...
fighting or bringing your emotion to the conversation. Remember there's a job to do. Focus on the job at hand. I've been Jack Frimston. I've been Zack Thompson. Remember you will die. Das geht sie nix an.